Why should I prioritize putting myself first? What are the benefits of practicing self-care?
Have you been hearing about self-care everywhere but you aren’t quite sure how it could benefit your life? Luckily for you, I’m sharing 3 remarkable ways practicing self-care can give you the kick in the butt you need!
Self-care has become all the rage for millennials. (By now, it’s basically the equivalent of avocado toast!)
Although constantly hearing about the importance of self-care may make some people cringe, you can’t argue with the fact that self-care is tremendously important!
Yet, as busy students, parents, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, self-care is usually the first thing we forget about.
If you want to go beast mode on your life goals, taking care of yourself is not an option. It’s necessary!
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Why Self-Care is Important
Have you ever heard the saying, “You can’t pour from an empty cup?” If you think about it in a literal sense, it’s 100% true, right?
If a cup is empty, how could you possibly pour anything from it? There’s nothing to pour. Nothing to give. Nothing to share with others.
Now imagine that YOU are that cup. You may have a job, a side hustle, a family, friends, hobbies, goals…but if you are empty, you have nothing to dedicate to those high-priority people and things in your life.
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So how do you make sure your cup is not empty? By taking care of yourself first… a.k.a. self-care!
There are loads of benefits to self-care:
- Physically, you feel better. Your body is relaxed and you remain healthy.
- Emotionally, you’re in tune with yourself. When you feel better about yourself, you’re more confident and ready to take on the world.
- Spiritually – and not necessarily in a religious sense – you begin to understand your purpose in life.
While all these benefits make a great case for self-care, would you believe that there are even more benefits?
Especially for creatives like you!
Get ready to learn how taking care of yourself first can help you be more productive, be more creative, and make more money!
How Self-Care Can Skyrocket Your Productivity
How much time is left in your day after you do everything you have to do? One hour? Maybe you have NO time leftover? Are you pushing into the negatives?
Do you not make time for yourself because you feel like there is no extra time?
If so, trust me, you are NOT alone. I can totally relate to that feeling.
When you’re out in the world goal-crushing and taking care of business, you might feel like you have to focus on everyone and everything else FIRST. You may think that if you set aside time for yourself first, you’re taking time away from something else super important that just has to get done.
This kind of thinking is the perfect way to end up with an empty cup. (And remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup, right?)
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If you are constantly focusing on everyone else except for yourself, you’ll eventually burn out and have nothing left to give. Self-care is so important for you to keep from burning out.
What does burnout look like, you ask?
- Taking 2 hours to do a task that should have taken 20 minutes
- Being so overwhelmed with things to do that you just get in the bed and do nothing at all
- Feeling down and sad because you have all these ideas but can’t seem to actually implement any of them
These are all signs of an empty cup. You’re not very productive in these moments, are you?
That’s why it’s actually more productive for you to set aside time for yourself first so that you are continuously “refilling your cup.”
That way, you can achieve your goals and get things done.
I’m going to give you a challenge for the next month: Every week, plan time to take care of yourself…first! If you’re in the (terrific!) habit of keeping a planner or calendar, make sure you block out at least 1-2 hours of time every week for self-care.
Even if you don’t normally use a planner, you should write down your self-care plans so that you can hold yourself accountable. For an extra layer of accountability, you could invite a friend along too!
Stick to your plan and see how much more productive you can be!
How Self-Care Can Enhance Your Creativity
If there’s one guaranteed creativity-killer, it’s stress. No matter where it comes from – your job, your family, your friends – stress can completely squash your creative energy.
Why is that?
When you feel safe, you feel comfortable being open and vulnerable. You’re free to explore your emotions, thoughts, and beliefs. This feeling of freedom allows you to create freely.
Stress causes the exact opposite response. When you’re stressed, your mind and body automatically go into fight-or-flight mode. Your mind shuts down to other important things so that can you can focus on fighting the stress or running away from it.
If your mental energy is going towards fighting or fleeing a situation, you have no energy left to create.
It turns out that self-care is a great way to cope with stress and reduce your stress levels!
When you reduce the stress in your life, you become more relaxed and your mind is ready to create whatever you want to. Regularly engaging in self-care activities helps unload stress so that you can get back to your hobbies, passion projects, and side hustles.
Here’s the kicker: Many self-care activities actually ARE creative outlets! Using creative activities like these as part of your self-care routine is a genius idea!
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How Self-Care Can Boost Your Income
Hopefully, you won’t mind if we do a quick and painless math problem.
Here it goes: PRODUCTIVITY + CREATIVITY = __________?
Any ideas?
You’ve got it – MONEY!
When you’re able to do more and create more, you’re able to make more money.
How exactly does this work?
These days, almost everyone has some sort of side hustle or wants to have a side hustle. But we all know that most legitimate side hustles take real work. If you want your side hustle to actually succeed, you have to offer something that other people aren’t offering AND you have to manage your time well.
In other words, you’ve gotta be creative and you absolutely have to be productive.
It takes creative marketing strategies to stand out from the crowd, especially if you’re in a field that’s supersaturated.
Plus, if it’s truly a “side” hustle, that means you have something more substantial, like a job or school, that’s your primary focus. Clearly, you don’t have a lot of time to waste.
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By making time to take care of yourself, you get the productivity and creativity boosts that you need to be a BOSS!
When your mindset is in tip-top shape, you have the formula for slaying those goals and making the money you’ve worked so hard for!
What Are the Best Self-Care Activities?
This is where the fun part comes in. Choosing your self-care activities is totally up to you!
What I find to be fun and relaxing may be different from the things you love to do.
Here are a few questions you can ask yourself to guide you in the right direction:
- What are activities you don’t have to convince yourself to do?
The point of self-care is to do something you actually enjoy doing. If you have to convince yourself to do it, it’s officially a chore. That’s a no-go. - What are activities that only take 1-2 hours at most?
The amount of time you spend on self-care is ultimately up to you. But remember that you have lots of other things to accomplish. Try to limit your activities to 1-2 hours at a time so that you’re still motivated to get work done after your personal time ends. - Would you rather be alone or with other people?
You may love being around friends or strangers and participating in group activities. You may also prefer to be alone sometimes. Deciding whether you want to be in a group setting or try a solo gig will help you figure out what to do.
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- What are your favorite hobbies?
Do you like to go hiking on the weekends? Read books? Go for walks? Sometimes the hobbies you already enjoy doing (but just don’t do enough) can be the perfect way to set aside time for yourself! - Are there any activities you use to enjoy when you were younger?
As we get older, we tend to do less and less of what use to make us happy. It may be a great time to revisit some of those activities you use to love before life got real! - What helps you relieve stress?
This might be one of the most important questions to ask yourself. You want to be sure to choose activities that will help you feel lighter and more relaxed once you’re done with them.
Like I mentioned before, what works best for you may not work best for someone else.
Free Printable Self-Love Quotes
Ready to invest in your self-care? I’ve created 10 beautifully designed, printable self-care and self-love quotes for you.
This download comes with high-resolution, graphic quotes that are ready to print and post in your home or office.
There are so many self-care tips, activities, and ideas available to you. Take the time, make it a priority. Yes, self-care is for busy parents too!
Now that you know all the benefits of practicing self-care, you have no excuse!
With a little time and a lot of self-care, you’ll be CRUSHING your goals in no time!
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Last Updated on February 20, 2025
Tasheena @ SimplyTasheena.com says
I agree! Self-care can really boost your creativeness. It’s like once you take care of yourself, you feel rejuvenated and ready to hit the ground running.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Thanks so much for reading Tasheena! Totally agree – taking care of yourself helps clear your mind and put you in the mental space to create! Hope you’re making plenty of time for self-care 🙂
chelf says
very true! Self care is the fist thing we push back and eventually forget about. But it’s also so important, we need to be well and take care of ourselves to be able to be productive and creative. I love my alone time and I cherish my solitude but it’s so hard to find the time now…
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
That’s so true Chelf. I think as we get older, it’s harder and harder to find moments of solitude, but I definitely thrive in that environment too!
Kristi McAllister says
Self care is one of those things that took me a long time to
Embrace. People often feel like they’re being selfish if they take care of themselves first, but it’s not like that at all. The real deal is that we can’t pour from an empty cup! Thanks for the reminder to take care of me first!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Thanks for reading Kristi! I’m glad you were able to embrace self-care. It’s definitely a work in progress.
C-Ludik says
I fully agree with you ! Self-care is the most important way to boost and maintain both emotional and physical health. It’s easy to neglect taking care of ourselves because when we’re busy and overwhelmed, even a small reprieve feels like a luxury. So actually taking time to eat lunch, exercise, and hang out with friends ? That just feels like slacking. As fluffy and indulgent as the phrase “self care” may sound, it’s just a few basic habits that are crucial to your functioning 😉
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
It does feel like slacking. I agree with you that a big chunk of it revolves around reframing the way we perceive and think about self-care!
Taylor says
You have such a cool website! I am recently on a self-care kick and my overall happiness has improved tremendously!
Nadalie Bardo says
Thanks for the blog love Taylor!
fashionandstylepolice says
This is so true. I needed to read this post. Self care is way too important to neglect.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Thanks so much for reading! May your self-care only continue to increase 🙂
Fatima Torres says
I have to agree, self-care does work wonders and it helps motivate you for a new week. I like to do self-care routine during the weekend. Makes it easier with kids.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Same here! Minimal time for self-care for me during the week, but I do try to get some reading in during the day.
Joy says
I love this post! Yes, self care is oh so important! However in a world that seems to almost frown upon deviating from a state of “constant busy-ness”, self-care can sometimes take the back seat. Thanks for sharing your tips and thoughts!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
The “constant busy-ness” is so counterproductive. Hopefully we will start to value taking care of ourselves more than we value the perception of being busy.
Shilpa Bindlish says
I’VE learnt the importance of self care the hard way. It’s essential to live for yourself not just for your family.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Hi Shilpa. It’s not fun to learn things the hard way, but hopefully you’re able to focus more on self-care now. Thanks for reading!
Aine says
Self care is so important, think it’s grrat to take some time to rest and recover
Nadalie Bardo says
I couldn’t agree with you more Aine! I am fresh off a self-care weekend and I feel so amazing right now.
kathleen says
self care is SO important, i love the unplug quote ! xo
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Thanks so much Kathleen!
Ian Aman says
I’m so glad you made this post because people really forget about taking care of themselves. I love your analogy of the mug and those quotes you put in are empowering. Btw, I like your slogan itsallyouboo 😀
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Yes, we do forget, but being proactive about self-care can make all the difference. Thanks for reading!
Shannon says
Living with chronic illness as well as depression and anxiety, self care is a huge part of my life! Thank you for sharing its importance!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Shannon, thanks for sharing and for reading. I’m glad you’re able to find the time for self-care!
Haley says
Love this! Love all of your super-practical steps to putting yourself first! Thanks!!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Thanks so much for reading! I think the key is finding self-care activities that meet your individual needs 🙂
Chelsea says
Love this! I feel like so many of us forget to take time for ourselves. It is so important to do so!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Agreed Chelsea! Thanks for reading!
Lauren says
Great article! I needed this reminder. Especially, the explanation on burnout!
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
We could all use a reminder sometimes! Thanks for reading 🙂
Jubilee D Meyer says
Self Care is so important! Yoga and reading have been my favorite ways to practice it:)
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
I’m so glad you’ve found specific activities. Exercise and reading are two of mine also! Thanks for reading 🙂
Leigh says
I truly believe that self-care is necessary!! I’ve often had to enforce it with my husband who gets burnout often from working so much and I’ve felt it every now and then from taking on too much. I really do feel unproductive and lack creative energy when I don’t focus on incorporating self-care into my schedule.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Hmm, you could give us some great tips on motivating male significant others to improve self-care! 😉
Blair villanueva says
Self care is important. Our life is a gift and it is our duty to take care of it. It would be a huge shame to the nature for giving us this life, and ended up wasted.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
So true. By taking care of ourselves, we show that we are grateful for the life, mind, body, soul, spirit, etc. we were given.
Sandra says
I really like this article. I feel like self-care is something we do when we are broken or starting to fall apart but the power of pro-active self care is so important.
Megan Nichole | LaziMILLENNIAL says
Yes! I love the way you phrased that – “proactive self-care.” Thanks for reading!
Gary Puntman says
I have noticed that it takes me a lot longer to do tasks that should be simple and take a short amount of time. It’s good to know that this is a sign of burn out, like you said. It definitely seems like self care is just what i need to help me. It would help me gain more motivation, happiness, and peace.